Reading please? Will make sure to leave feedback

#1 · 20 June 2023, 00:04

Hi everyone,

It's been a while since I've posted. If anyone could help me out with a reading it would be greatly appreciated and I'll be sure to leave as much feedback as I can. I have one specific area I'd like to know about really but anything else you are able to pick up on is also welcomed.
I would like to know if anyone sees my recent ex giving up his legal rights for our children over to me in exchange for no child support on his end...that is the offer I've made him....just waiting to hear back from my lawyer on what he has decided but he's taking his good ol' time...Just want my children safe.
His name is Madison and DOB is 03/22/93
My name is Megan and DOB is 02/05/95

(Not sure if that info is needed but figure I would leave it just in case that helps the connection.)

Thank you to anyone willing to help ease my mind on this situation.

-Meg

#2 · 20 June 2023, 00:04

He'd like to but he's too stubborn and controlling to do that. You would also (legally) need to have a spouse who would be willing to adopt the children in order for a judge to sign off on that.

You'll have some rocky times with him, but he'll eventually just drift away, so you'll kind of get what you're asking for in the end.

#3 · 20 June 2023, 00:04

Hi mmagique,

Thank you for responding first off. Unfortunately that sounds just like something he would do. He’s super stubborn and very controlling. My ultimate wish is for him just move on with his life.

Can I ask one more thing? Do you see him trying to get rights over our daughter that I just had. He’s not on the birth certificate and she has my last name. He essentially assaulted me while I was pregnant with her..he didn’t want me having her..I’m very scared for her to have any legal connection to him what’s so ever. I don’t want him neglecting her or our boys. Just really worried for my children to be around him and anyone he associates with.

#4 · 20 June 2023, 00:04

No, I think partying and being a stud is going to be more important than fighting (and most of all) spending money and time trying to do something he knows is unlikely to happen.

I think he has someone whispering in his ear, (his mother or girlfriend?) and that would be the ONLY reason he would even attempt to do so. But I think self-preservation (saving his money) will over-rule anything anyone else will push him to do.

#5 · 20 June 2023, 00:04

The smile says confidence.
but the eyes say doubt,fear,insecurity

#6 · 20 June 2023, 00:04

i feel like youll have all the rights to your children

#7 · 20 June 2023, 00:04

Quote from jstanleyf on 20 June 2023, 00:04
What I pick up

I feel a disconnect in communication over child support / custody between the two of you. It seems like its mostly on his end in regards to that. I in general get the feeling of him however wanting to get back together or bring you back in some fashion, it doesn't seem like he wants to let go and is holding something above you. It seems most similar in feeling to if someone has something that you need and they're holding it ransom in exchange for your co-operation. I feel you appear to be moving on or away from this person as you feel they're a little childish or toxic. I feel another person in the mix, which makes me believe you may be heading towards another relationship or in one. I'm not sure why but I see rock climbing or physical activity, could be in regards to the person coming in to the mix. This new person seems to make you feel loved.

I see travel plans or vacation, seems like a hot place, I feel like Im heading towards california (I live in the US) so maybe that indicates you'll be wanting to go to a place similar to that. I see teaching coming up twice and also get a small feeling of dealing with continuing education so maybe this relates to the person you're moving towards. I feel its 'scholarly' not sure really what that entails, but seems more professor-ish as I saw images of someone in a room and 1 book, and I get a sense of being 'north'. I wonder if a new person will be coming from the north that has relations regarding education or something like this. I also see something that could be planned maybe 2 - 3 weeks out and I see some ropes so maybe climbing or a physical trek or something like this. I move now to seeing you with a glass, inside is a sundae, milkshake or drink looks strawberry but it could just be an analogy, seems to be inside a place that looks similar to a diner, you seem to be sighing or in a general mood of not feeling uplifted stirring the straw around. Seems you're waiting on something and feeling a little depressed. So perhaps for now you may feel a sense of loneliness or numb but it'll fade. I sense feelings of wondering if this is for the best. Life seems kind of unfair to you at the moment, but I see some red slippers which indicates to me maybe distractions like shopping or going out could be helpful to life your mood.

I also get a since of worry over a child (daughter?) and how she'll adapter / school related changes too. Hope some of that makes sense, if not that's okay just let me know where I messed up 🙂

What I pick up

I feel a disconnect in communication over child support / custody between the two of you. It seems like its mostly on his end in regards to that. I in general get the feeling of him however wanting to get back together or bring you back in some fashion, it doesn't seem like he wants to let go and is holding something above you. It seems most similar in feeling to if someone has something that you need and they're holding it ransom in exchange for your co-operation. I feel you appear to be moving on or away from this person as you feel they're a little childish or toxic. I feel another person in the mix, which makes me believe you may be heading towards another relationship or in one. I'm not sure why but I see rock climbing or physical activity, could be in regards to the person coming in to the mix. This new person seems to make you feel loved.

I see travel plans or vacation, seems like a hot place, I feel like Im heading towards california (I live in the US) so maybe that indicates you'll be wanting to go to a place similar to that. I see teaching coming up twice and also get a small feeling of dealing with continuing education so maybe this relates to the person you're moving towards. I feel its 'scholarly' not sure really what that entails, but seems more professor-ish as I saw images of someone in a room and 1 book, and I get a sense of being 'north'. I wonder if a new person will be coming from the north that has relations regarding education or something like this. I also see something that could be planned maybe 2 - 3 weeks out and I see some ropes so maybe climbing or a physical trek or something like this. I move now to seeing you with a glass, inside is a sundae, milkshake or drink looks strawberry but it could just be an analogy, seems to be inside a place that looks similar to a diner, you seem to be sighing or in a general mood of not feeling uplifted stirring the straw around. Seems you're waiting on something and feeling a little depressed. So perhaps for now you may feel a sense of loneliness or numb but it'll fade. I sense feelings of wondering if this is for the best. Life seems kind of unfair to you at the moment, but I see some red slippers which indicates to me maybe distractions like shopping or going out could be helpful to life your mood.

I also get a since of worry over a child (daughter?) and how she'll adapter / school related changes too. Hope some of that makes sense, if not that's okay just let me know where I messed up 🙂