My son
This is my 25 yr old son he is alive but not well . The company he keeps is no good for him and I fear a lot for him . 😥
Your son is too easy-going and easily led by a more forceful personality, because he has no faith in or concept of his own strength and inner wisdom. He can also not take life seriously enough and needs to mature a lot more. Yet I also sense a lot of anger and frustration in him too that may attract him to violent situations or people. Subconsciously, he feels that other people know and do better than he does. He needs to go through difficult experiences to find out that is not true and that he can trust in himself and his own attractiveness and ability to lead. It is only when we are tested that we find out what we are truly made of. But don't worry, though he will be hurt by his experiences, he will grow more mature and wiser from them. He has a 'guardian angel' around him looking after him, a passed over male figure (grandfather?) I see your son becoming a mentor to other lost souls after all this learning period is over.
Thank you !
Yes he does not take life serious and he does have a lot of anger in him at times . He don't work , he wants to more then anything and he does look for jobs but he never has good luck . . I have 3 other children and he always acts like they are all more favorable when in reality they all have my heart . He has 2 brothers and the one he did everything with up til a yr ago . They no longer talk and have physically daughter because of his lifestyle his brother decided he no longer wants him in his life . There is a woman about my age whom I believe coaxes him and she also from what others have told me given him drugs! I want him better his soul healed and I pray a lot for him to be .
As for a male spirit .. Grandfather . Well my husbands Dad is deceased but he passed when my husband was a little boy.
We have a young man who died when he was 15/16 yrs old that when I break down and cry during my prayers to keep him safe and to help him stay away from these bad people and heal his addiction I ask to be by my sons side and aide him in better directions . This cycle in his life has been a few years now when can he begin to have better changes ?
This woman I speak of will she see jail time soon ?
I feel your son will grow out of this rebellious unhappy stage within the next two years. No, I don't feel this woman will go to jail anytime soon - your son must come to his senses, and stop putting himself last in his estimation, in order to see through her. If there are any courses your son can do to increase his self-esteem and self-belief in your location (something like learning the discipline of martial arts or volunteering to help the less fortunate), i would urge him to take them up.
Thank you again .
I will try some suggestions to him and hope he shows and interest to what. I say.
Thank you for reading his pic for me
We all want our children to succeed in life, to be happy and not make the same mistakes we have made. I feel that you have been an awesome mother and are quite protective. You have done everything you can to raise them right, but this son seems to have a mind of his own. When we percieive our children failing, somehow we manage to feel we have failed them. The reality is, at some point they have to make their own mistakes in order for their souls to grow. The lessons we learn in life are often difficult and depending on what it is we need in order to grow, will often reflect the deeper lessons we need to learn in our souls. You feel a little confused, as it feels like he seemed to be doing very well and then all of a sudden, changed. I see him walking a pretty good path and then quickly started to change. It's often difficult to watch our children go through this, but this independent type spirit often reflects walking their own path and needing to learn fro their mistakes by experiencing them first. They often don't understand the pain it causes others or really don't care because what they need to is the freedom to make their own decisions, to live their own life they way they choose, not what others want them to. They often are willing to take the risk for this freedom and self control over lives, no matter the consequences. The road is often impulsive and reckless, but for them, it makes them feel ...alive. They often live for the moment and don't worry about the result later on because the moment's pleasure is what they often live for. It usually takes them hitting rock bottom before understanding the lesson. This is often based on their soul age, which is a more accurate age. He feel's like a younger soul that lives for the moment. But he also feels very sensitive, emotionally. He does have a beautiful soul but he feels to be losing himself, I think you see that and are wanting to know why. He feels to be hiding his true self, partly because of his feelings of feeling inferiour, not being able to live up to people's expectations and just feeling different in general. I'm also picking up a loss of someone very close to him. This feels to be a trigger. Not sure if it's death or someone leaving, but this feels to have something to do with it. I'm hearing "giving up" and it feel's like he just gave up. He feel's different and can't seem to measure up to other's, so he gave up. The drinking and drugs are alot to do with the freedom of choice but also, mostly an escape. He's losing himself to himself within himself, if that makes sense. I keep hearing he's different, meaning he's still trying to find himself. He knows he doesn't fit within the mold that society or people expect of him and he doesn't want to, yet he is conflicted as he keeps trying to fit within that mold and seems to fail, which in turn brings him further down.
Man, he has so much light and I'm seeing two sides of him. I see this side that is loving and gentle, very empathic and compassionate, but there is this struggle within him that makes him go through this vicious spiral. He has an opportunity to go down either path, but he doesn't see his potential. He has a block that doesn't allow him to see past some of the negative things in him. There feel;s to be alot of sadness and picking up a male that may have left him when he was younger? I'm picking up alot of loneliness, fueled by pain. He has this wall, and if you can break down this wall, he will break. It feels like he will have to tear down this wall and start a new path, but he has to be able to let go, and he has to be able to see the light within himself. He will never live up to people's expectations, but what he to know is that he doesn't have to. Yes, there are certain things in life that he needs, like finances, he has to be able to take care of himself, but he get's to choose how he does this. Even if you have encouraged him to try different things that better fit, he's still hasn't figured this part out yet. He has dreams and goals, yet it seems to fail before it even starts. He surrounds himself with people that he feels a connection with, and they feed off of each other. Meaning, if he feels like a failure, he will surround himself with other like minded people. They have a connection through these types of emotions.
My only advice is to tell him that you love him no matter what (which I have no doubt you do) and to let go and allow him to experience what he needs to. You still love him, you still encourage him, but the messes he get's into, he needs to figure out how to get out of them on his own. This will be a test of faith for both of you, but he will learn and he will grow into the beautiful soul he is. In the meantime, you hold onto your love for him, one day he will see it. Pain is usually fueled by love, and he will need to resolve this pain on his own, come to terms with it before he will be able to experience the love you have for him. Now letting go doesn't mean losing hope, it just means taking a step back and letting him figure it out and being there when he needs it. I do see that wall coming down and I do see a breaking point in his life. lol, I also see children, I don't know if he has children now, but I do see them and a great daddy. Things will change for him, but he has to go through this in order to break down the wall and to find out who he is to himself.
I just pulled 3 Angels cards and this message is for you. The first is peace and the Angels are asking for you to find peace within. They are also bringing you peace. They are working behind the scenes protecting and helping you. They want you to have find some peace in this situation and peace within the choices you have made and will be making around this situation. They ask that you give your worries and concerns to them and to find peace. They are working behind the scenes to help him and to find peace in that knowledge. I also pulled the Indigo and Crystal children and You are safe cards which confirms their message. I'm also hearing "have hope, not everything is as it seems. The path will change and have hope that we are watching over him... And you. They are asking you to also connect with them (or whoever you connect with on a higher spiritual level). Hope brings life and life brings miracles, is what they said. They showed me the patience card and are saying that it will take a little time. I also pulled the career transition card , the compassion card and the victory card which shows me that he will be offered employment in the near future. They also showed me the gifts from God card which are all positive cards for a job coming in the future. They are also working behind the scenes to help him seek the employment he desires. I also saw a school which usually represent either some type of school, or some type of training in a career that he is interested in. This feels like a turning point for him. Tell him to have confidence. I'm feeling a lot of up's and down's concerning this area, happy at a prospect, but not turning out the way he expected. This takes away hope, but they are showing me that a position that he really likes are is a better fit for him will be coming through, so don't give up hope, I'm hearing"keep trying". How do I say this, it's funny because I keep seeing him as a firefighter or EMT, something to that effect and I'm seeing him taking some time to train in a career or field that fits him better. Like all the job opportunities closing for him or obtaining a job he may not feel is something he would want to do forever, will lead him to look into different career options, if that makes sense. He doesn't feel like he would be content with just a job, he needs a career, a purposeful type career that fills more then just the wallet, but fills the soul. Helping people in trouble really lifts his soul, seeing how his light helps other people in need. He has this light that shines so bright, and once he can get past this bump in the road, I see him moving in directions that nobody ever expected to go into. He has ALOT of compassion. I wish you could see what I see, I wish he could see it because the love inside and his compassion is like an ocean. He's going to wonderful things, he's going to change people in a positive way and it's a beautiful thing,once his pain has healed, he will be healing others, stranger's,friends, family. They just gave me the beloved card (your son) and the victory card again, which wonderful things are coming for him. This isn't forever, believe in this truth because things will change, he will grow and he will move past this stage in his life. Don't give up hope but things, in time, will turn around for the better and it will be better then you ever hope for. I don't have a time frame, it will depend on long it takes for his heart to heal, but he has help from above to help do that, but more important, he has you 🙂
This is all I'm getting for now. I hope this reading helps.
Blessed Be,
Angel
Angel everything you said gives me the greatest hopes for him ! I am to the point where I sometimes can't hold a conversation with him without him feeling like he's being judged by me which isn't the case . I haven't slept well in yrs because I am truly afraid of getting a nock at my door or phone call to go identify him . He stays home all the time his friends and cousins come to him . Recently tho he's been going off somewhere after hrs and walking in the door abt 7/7:30am . I never ask where he was I figure he's 25 it's his business . And yes his Dad and I try to help him out with jobs . He is by far an awesome mechanic ! Many people around us come to him to fix their vehicles . He's also very good with furnaces . And yes he had someone leave him , a girl he was deeply in love with . She even lived with us for 2 yrs but she would get violent with him then he would back with her etc the relationship turned toxic . She wanted lots of $$$ , he did work then and all he wanted was the world with her . Finally she left and she told him He will never ever be anyone good and he will always be a loner . He tells everyone how rite she was and I have reminded him how he was everything different then that before he met her !
His younger brother has 3 children . His sister has 1 and now his brother he was very close to is going to have a baby he n his gf in October and Wayne no longer has the brother relationship with him .
I can tell it bothers Wayne very much his siblings are living their lives already and here he is stuck home with mom and Dad , no job , no gf, no plans . And I tell him only HE can change all that He must stop the things he's been doing and change his ways we his parents can't do it for him .
I'm very happy knowing the Angels are here to help ! Ya kno I have prayed many times asking them for help , and his grandmother whom he was very close to . He goes to her grave from time to time and talks to her I believe . I kno and I really am going to try to step back and let him work things out on his own but I worry sick of his health he already has heart issues from birth . As for mentally it wears me down like I said I don't really sleep I'm a worrier when I kno he's all of a sudden taking off somewhere til the next morning .
He gave his heart and soul to a woman who he believed was his soul-mate, his other half. I have low. no doubt she is a soulmate, but soulmates doesn't always work out as romantic couple. They are usually part of the soul family and travel together,incarnate together and help us grow. It's not always as beautiful and romantic as people make it out to be, sometimes the lessons are difficult and growth of the soul comes slow. He's wounded right now, and it feels like he is really grieving. It feels like he buillt this world completely around her and then when it ended, that world came crashing down and he hasn't started picking up the pieces yet. It's usually a time when you have to make a choice, do we rebuild or walk away and start over somewhere else? He hasn't really made that decision yet because he is still healing with the blow. This relationship really took a toll on him. He feel's very sensitive so when he gives his heart away, really gives it away, if that person betrays him, it devastates him. At this point he has shut himself down, trying to ignore and numb the pain, but also dealing with the anger of the betrayal. He honestly thought this was the one that would be forever. Did she she cheat? The betrayal feels like an actual betrayal of his love, whatever it was, it was significant enough to leave a scar. At this point he is hiding away and "licking his wounds" per sey. He wants and desire's love, but right now he is scared to open his heart to it again. He might even claim he's done, but he's not 🙂 He's just hurting right now. The things he is doing now, externally is a way to show that he can manage without her, he's doing "just fine", but inside, he's crushed and not really sure how to move forward.
It feels like he has a low self-esteem, he see's his siblings having what he wants, and he wants it..badly... but feels like he will never get it. It feels like he feel's he different, feels like a "screw up" because he's different. Wow, she really did some damage to his self esteem, didn't she? He need's to remember who he is. It feels like he is self destructing because he feels that is what he deserves, and at moments, doesn't care. Those feelings go back and forth, but on a deeper level, he still loves her, alot and since he did everything for her, in his mind, what's the point? He's a typical Empath, always sacrificing for others and never putting stock into his own self or even in his own worth:) And perhaps that's the deeper lesson he is supposed to learn, self love. To realize that life isn't meant to be doing all the giving while someone else does all the taking, it's a balance, you give, you take, they give, they take. Helping someone isn't just sacrificing for the other person and taking nothing for yourself, this isn't sacrifice, this is martyr ism, because when we truly give, that look in their eyes knowing how greatful they are, that look feeds your own soul and then it continues. Self-sabotage is nothing new to an Empath, but one of the hardest lessons for any Empath is to include themselves into the equation. True balance includes the giving and taking, when only giving and no taking occurs, then the soul begins to die. They really don't want that, but they often feel they deserve it.
Your son needs time to heal, his wounds are deep and will take time for this process, but being there, talking to him and helping him get into better situations, better people will help him. Some tough love may also work. I have a 26 year old and I have to kick her in the pants from time to time to,:) And it put's her back in line. But I have also learned to respect her as adult, which is hard since we are always parents and they will always be our kids:) But the bottomline, my house, my rules! I told her, you either go to school, or you work and move out in 6 months. (I would have given her longer if she needed it, but she didn't need to know that,lol) She went to school and is now obtaining her Master's degree. She has also maintained honor role status the entire time! She has also been dealing transitioning, because she is transitioning. She complains sometimes how hard it is, and I told her, things are going to happen in life, and even if you have these major things going on, you still have to finish school, you still have bills to pay that's not going to wait on you to become ready. I told her, you do what you need to do and i will support you, but finishing school is your priority. And when you graduate, your job will be your priority. If you don't like it or can't handle it, you need to figure something else out because life isn't going to wait for you. Sorry, I'm rambling now,lol.
He may need some counseling for his depression. He's a very gentle soul and his behavior is merely a reflection of the pain within. He has no desire to hurt anyone, other then himself. But this won't help him, it will only dig a deeper hole, I agree that he has to take responsibility for his own emotions and actions, but while he is living in your house, everything he does is your buissness. You have rules, and he has bills to pay to contribute to the household. Maybe these rules will be enough incentive for him to get out of the rut he is, and force him to get back on track so he can have all the things he desires. He might need medication to help with the depression but he is stuck in a rut, he's living in some kind of "groundhog's day" and shaking things up may just be the ticket he needs to get himself out of it 🙂 You obviously love him very much, and though I understand how deeply he grieves, my advice would to be to take away his comfort zone. No more going out all night. Waking up and looking for jobs at 8 or 9 or whatever. Has 3 months to find a job or he's going to have to find another place to live. If he's to depressed, then he goes and see's a councilor. The Angels are working to help him, but the angel that will save him from himself...is you! It's not something he wants, but it is something he needs to get him out of that loop, that ground hog's day. Will he resist, yes! but he will also thank you for it when he comes over on Christmas with his wife and kids:) (Which I do see). 🙂
One more thing, he's a very good looking guy, he could have his pick of women so tell him to stop settling and raise his standards higher, to the one's who actually deserve his love:)
Thank you kindly for this reply ,
Yes he does have depression he used to take meds for it but refuses these days . There is a certain woman whom I pray falls off the edge of the earth literally ! She is a drug seller and acts like a counselor to my son talks against me to him to the point I barely have a relationship anymore with him . He was told by his Dad to get help or move out . He's not a daily user he has no money but an occasional one and it scares me bad things are coming his way if he don't change soon enough . I try to talk to my son but he erupts criticizing me calling me names etc it's his life I'm to but out so recently I don't really talk to him .
I pray that all you seen really happens for him . He's my first born and my heart aches so much for him he refuses me to be and act as his mother and I believe it's because of that woman I mentioned earlier
Any reading on him here? He passed away 2 days ago. [attachment=0]175383453_10222080486294095_5402229592157028152_n.jpg
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. I know you and he were close and you loved him very much. Those who have passed are beyond my reach but I'll send you some healing energy.
Hi Sue,
I hope i am with you, on this, .....
I am seeing an older man shown with dark/mousy brown hair with a short hair cut where the fringe parts at the middle, he has wide rimmed black glasses and is wearing a brown jumper and brown trousers. He is a powerful , forthright man with a great sense of humour but can also be quite sharp and cutting at times with his tongue. The words "He's got him" are being said as in, he is under his wing. I have a funny taste in the back of my throat so maybe he had a lot of bile in his throat (the older gent) or smoked a lot cigarettes. I don't know if it is a grandfather figure or a close older male relative to your son.
I sensed heavy metal music, and saw Axl rose from Guns and roses, I also saw motorbikes. I feel there has been a heavy male influence in his life.
I see an eagle and a bandana, again this is along the motor bike vibe.
I see the words "blood transfusion"
I see a lady with blonde curled hair sitting in a blue chair, she was sitting in this blue chair for a number of days, just being there with nothing else on her mind almost clutching onto something like a blanket or a teddy bear.
Ive been given the month of November and a date being the 16th.
I see the words "!snake rattle and roll" or it could be Shake. perhaps a saying that was often said when someone was leaving.
I also see a rope, like a sailing rope.
I think a message is "wear a helmet , a pink or red helmet" this is for the lady with blonde hair.
I hope the above makes some sense to you, i often get images and then they morph into other things. I like to work with evidence, to try and get lots of it so that you can identify with it and then hopefully a message comes through. I am new on here.
In summary, i believe this older man has come through to provide some form of evidence to connect with you and let you know that he is around at this really testing time.
I hope you can link some of the things i have written and its not all gobbledegoop!!!
Best wishes and heartfelt sympathies, Spirit wave.
Thank you.. and pretty good there Spiritwave
sue cali wrote: ↑Tue May 04, 2021 4:31 am
Thank you.. and pretty good there Spiritwave
Hi Sue,
I hope some of it meant sense 🙂 xx