life path
hi there,
I am 30, a single mother, unemployed, staying at home with a narcissistic mom and in a relationship with a man man who is in a relationship with a hooker. my life isn't making any sense.
can someone help me?
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Why can't you get a job........dump that man........who needs that.......find a job move out let mom deal with her own lies.
Not hard to do at all!
SEVEN I am trying to get in touch with you. I need your expertise for someone else. Please PM me.
You have become aware that you are stuck in a cycle, like treading water in the middle of the ocean. Seems you are waking to wanting to make choices for your life.
Take it one day at a time, you need a plan. What do you want?
As you are aware you are surrounded by people who take without your permission. Narcissists are selfish and will erode your heart and spirit.
You always have a choice, keep yourself strong, positive and safe.
Choose the words you speak to your self and to them. Notice what they are saying - that is the energy they are using to manipulate you. Words are powerful. I would suggest you begin with a daily affirmation for yourself - choose what works for you. “I am clear in my life direction, I am safe and I receive all good things in my life from this day forward”.
One day at a time, do something that makes you feel alive and powerful, small changes create a strong foundation for the future.
All the very best. Ria 🙂
I think I did myself a great injustice by posting such a summarised version of my life events. now that I read it with fresh eyes I do come across as someone who really has made very little effort when it come to this thing called life. this could not be further from the truth. I was of the opinion that people on here were spiritual and as a result would be able to "tap in" without me writing my entire life story...I was wrong.
@Ria thank you for remaining kind and trying to actually give me something constructive to work with
booboobum wrote: ↑Fri Dec 27, 2019 6:02 am
I think I did myself a great injustice by posting such a summarised version of my life events. now that I read it with fresh eyes I do come across as someone who really has made very little effort when it come to this thing called life. this could not be further from the truth. I was of the opinion that people on here were spiritual and as a result would be able to "tap in" without me writing my entire life story...I was wrong.
@Ria thank you for remaining kind and trying to actually give me something constructive to work with
We did tap into your life and it's negative energy, you would rather sit and tell us different when we know you don't want to take on responsibilities to change things however you are not willing to do the actual work and view your life in a logical way if you did then you wouldn't be putting up with things or settle for scraps but be able to head your life in a better direction.......instead you want the people to tell you pink fluff stuff so you can continue to live your life like you do........it takes no effort from you to sit and complain about your life.......seriously make the changes! You want things differently then do the work however to keep hanging on to people in your life you know isn't good then that's just sad.
I agree 100% There was no need for you to clarify anything. I am sorry you feel the way you do but we are not here to coddle anyone you asked and you received an honest reading and from what I see they ALL concur. You have to be ready to not only hear the truth but also accept it. What you do with the information you receive is totally up to you.
The smart thing to do is to take it all and use it to your advantage. Not everyone likes what they hear.
She contacted me via PM a few days ago and I gave her a similar reading along the lines Seven did, she got upset and called me a fraud.
I am praying for your childs future.
Gary
Hi Gary, yeah most don't want to do much but be spoon fed down a rose garden wearing blinders. She needs to tap into logic kick herself in the laurels and shift the energies.
She's 30 years old........at that age people have an idea of where they want their life to go.........2nd Saturn Return is about viewing said life and deciding what works and what doesn't.........unemployment, there are jobs at burger places and yeah you have to do crummy jobs that you don't want to do to put food on the table, even working more than one job..........the mom is there as a place to live, so looks like a pit till you can get on your feet.......the guy this is easy dump him your lack of self esteem is showing, that guy is a player, get rid of him........begin to reprogram your mind and it will send new messages to your body......hint, hint you allow ppl to treat you as a doormat then you take that persona.........your life will improve if you allow it!!!!!!!!!!
I agree, I usually pass on these types of requests. I just know they are going to be controversial, however she PM'ed me and Im going to share the response from 26 Dec just to show you how close we were. Here:
{ Sent: Thu Dec 26, 2019 10:56 am
by argo327
You know what you have to do. What you have to do IS in the best interest of your child. Let go of everything you are afraid of loosing (Except children ofcourse). Cut the scum out of your life and find some self respect. You and your child need to start over from scratch and this time do not get involved with the type of people that would even consider being in a relationship with a hooker. If the abusive mom is his then no problem cutting her out. On the other hand if she is yours either stand up for yourself or cut her out also.
This is all about how you feel about yourself and if you love yourself enough to do the right thing for your child! Staying in the situation you are in now is weak and detrimental to your childs future. IT IS your responsibility to care of this child and set them up for success not failure. To pass the failure you call your life right now on to your child should be a crime worthy of the death penality IMO. YOU are the adult now its time to grow up and start thinking and acting like one.
If you cannot do this because these are the people supporting you, find a way to support yourself and GET OUT of the situation. If not for your own sake for the childs.
WE can only help people who are willing to help themselves!}
She thought I was harsh and I was ON HIm he really disgusted me. I told her in a subsequent message that I held back the fact I saw her kid in his teens getting arrested. Something told me she could not handel that.
I also think this conversation is a perfect opportunity to give everyone watching a look into this world as we see it.
Gary