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Is he the one?

I have had so many failed relationships in my past that haunt me to this day but he came along and is doing everything right so far and i'm just terrified. What do you see when you look at us? Long-term? Thanks in advance <3

I do feel this is a good man but there is a danger of you damaging the relationship unless you can let go of all the pain and hurt of the past and the fear it will repeat. Treat this relationship as if it were your first, because this can indeed be a new start for you in love matters.

The Captain wrote: ↑Mon Aug 07, 2017 8:36 pm
I do feel this is a good man but there is a danger of you damaging the relationship unless you can let go of all the pain and hurt of the past and the fear it will repeat. Treat this relationship as if it were your first, because this can indeed be a new start for you in love matters.

Thank you! I'm trying #workinprogress don't want to mess anything up

Anyone else? What else do you see?

He cares for you- that's nice to ''see''
He understands a lot about your past (including relationships that have failed and gone badly)
Do I see this going well --- Yes
Do I feel anything negative-- Not immediately (which is a good thing!)
What can I see in the present/near future-- I see that nothing much will change. I feel the next couple of months will be about you two learning more about each-other, and I see it going well. You will find you have/had more in common than you had initially thought. This is your foundation (one of). Relating to one another. Seeing good qualities in one another.
He ''wants'' to be The one and I see him making effort -- Maybe a little too much, which may scare you a little bit as in the past it has been a danger-sign. But I do feel this is genuine. I really hope this helps you and sorry for it being short, but didn't want to read and run

Praying for you both & wishing you (both) the best

Sam j

Thank Samantha!