Any time to spare for some advice is greatly appreciated
Im struggling with someone very close to me. I really could use some guidance on this matter. I dont want to give up on him but i feel like he really doesnt love me, or there is something deeper going on that he just cant talk about.
Baby girl, what is this person making you feel?
How long have you been struggling with this very same issue?
You heard the line you can take a horse to water but you. Can’t make them drink?
If he does not love you, you cannot make him love you. What you can do is give yourself that love and walk away - stop the struggle and give your self the respect you deserve. The respect this person is not giving you.
Sometimes we don’t get the answers to struggles until much later, you may get a clearer perspective when you are a little more emotionally disconnected from the situation.
If he is not prepared to discuss any of what is going on with you it may be that he is not ready to deal with it all within himself. Put yourself first always - look out for you, especially if no one else is going to be there for you.
All the best 🙂